Am I wrong to feel hurt, disappointed?

Yesterday was my 45th birthday or as i like to tell ppl my 24th anniversary of my 21st birthday. I've been with my current partner for a year and a half. So I am up and surfing he gets up no happy birthday nothing, no card. Unforeseen circumstances made me late home, my wipers were not working and it was pouring with rain so I had to sit it out. Previous to my birthday he had told me he was taking me out for a meal. Well I did not get home till 7.30pm and he said I cant be bothered to go out now we will do it tomorrow. I said ok. I have to take a step back here for a minute. I called him and told him about my wipers not working, he decided to get his knickers in a twist and yell at me about the fact that I dont look after my truck ect ect. I let him blow off steam and said well Im gonna go into the store and wait the rain out. Over the course of the hour and half we had very strained conversations on the phone. So back to home I sit down open my computer and check email ect. He apologizes to me he is very sorry blah blah. And tells me there is a card on the table for me and happy birthday. I open and thank him. Well I guess this is gonna sound like im having a temper trantrum here but I did not get a present, not even a gift card. He lends me money sometimes but it is logged onto a spreadsheet and I pay him back as much as I can when I can. Usually every month 100 to 200. Do you think im wrong to feel hurt and disappointed??